Hey there, mes amis.
So you’re planning a trip to France? That’s awesome! I’m excited for you to experience this amazing country.
But listen, we need to talk about what not to do in France, so your trip is as incredible as it can be.
As an American-expat-turned-Parisian, I’m here to give you some insights on the do’s and don’ts when it comes to etiquette in France.
Just like any other country, there are certain behaviors that will draw unwanted attention or even offend people.
So listen up, because these are the key things to avoid while in France.
Let’s dive in!
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1. Don’t insult the Eiffel Tower
Girl, it’s a French icon!
The best way to enjoy it is by admiring its beauty, not complaining about its size or the long lines. Don’t be THAT person who bashes France’s beloved tower.
Remember, good things come to those who wait.
2. Don’t assume everyone speaks English…
Look, it can be intimidating trying to speak the language of love when you don’t know more than a few words, but try your best!
French people appreciate visitors making an effort to learn some basic French words like bonjour (hello) and merci (thank you).
Related read: Is French hard to learn? My best tips for learning (that helped me become fluent in one year)
3. … And don’t speak English without trying French first
The French are a proud people, and they take their language seriously.
So if you don’t know how to say something in French, make sure to ask politely with a smile. I’m sure the locals will be happy to help you out!
4. Don’t oversimplify their culture
France is much more than just baguettes, cheese, wine, and escargot.
Don’t assume that all French people like the same food, listen to the same music, and wear berets.
Every city has its own unique vibe, and you’ll miss out on some great things if you don’t explore!
5. Don’t complain about the food
Ah yes, the world-famous French cuisine. While it’s fine to have your own favorite dishes, complaining or being picky about the food in France is a faux pas.
Plus, do you really want to miss out on some delicious dishes like boeuf bourguignon, ratatouille, and croque monsieur? I think not!
6. Don’t ignore the customs
France is a country full of traditions, so be mindful to follow their customs. For example, take off your shoes when entering someone’s house and always greet the host before sitting down.
Oh, and never forget to say bon appétit (enjoy your meal) before every dinner!
7. Don’t forget your table manners
If you want to fit in with the locals, make sure to brush up on your table etiquette. Don’t start eating until everyone at the table is served, and don’t talk with your mouth full.
And for the love of God, don’t put your elbows on the table!
8. Avoid saying “au revoir” prematurely
It’s like ghosting someone after a date. Say it when you’re leaving for real, not just switching rooms.
In France, people tend to say “à bientôt” (see you soon) instead of au revoir, as it’s considered more polite.
9. Don’t just stick to the beaten path
Sure, the Loire Valley and French Riviera are beautiful, but there’s so much more to explore!
Take a road trip through the small towns and discover local markets. Visit the lesser-known museums and see some offbeat attractions.
In short, get out there and have an adventure!
10. Don’t expect locals to welcome you with open arms
In France, people are known for being a bit aloof and not so friendly towards strangers.
Don’t take it personally; they just need a little warming up!
Break the ice by saying bonjour and maybe offering a compliment or two.
French people are known for not being the friendliest people, but they also won’t go out of their way to be rude to you either.
Most of the time, at least…
11. Don’t assume your credit card is accepted everywhere
Bring cash for public transportation, train tickets, and those irresistible pastries at the local bakery.
In most major cities, you can usually use your credit card, but some places still prefer cash. It’s always better to be prepared so you don’t end up stranded in a foreign country!
12. Skip the “French People 101” talk
Trust me, the locals know their own culture. They don’t need a lecture on French history, the French Revolution, or Napoleon Bonaparte.
Also, don’t assume the people you meet are all Parisians; they could be from a small village in the south of France. Respect their culture and listen to what they have to say!
13. Don’t forget that laughter is universal
Laughing and joking with friends is an important part of French culture.
So if you’re ever feeling shy or nervous, just crack a joke! Humor is a great way to break the ice and make friends.
Plus, it’ll show the locals that you’re open to trying new things and having fun with them.
Related read: How to make friends as a foreigner in France
14. The Arc de Triomphe is not a playground
Don’t climb on it, even if it does look like a great spot for a photo op.
I can’t believe I even have to say this, but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen people doing this.
Respect the monuments and appreciate their history rather than treating them like a playground!
Besides, your photo will come out better if you just stand in front of it.
P.S. Check out my complete guide on How to Book Tickets to the Arc de Triomphe Rooftop and my best tips for visiting!
15. Paris is not France
I know, when you think of France, you think of Paris. But France is much more than just the capital city.
France is a beautiful country with so much to offer, from Northern France and the French countryside to the beaches of the French Riviera.
Explore Provence, take a road trip through the Loire Valley, or go skiing in the Alps. Go on day trips or take a rental car to explore beyond the capital city.
There’s something here for everyone!
16. Don’t disrespect public places
Whether it’s the UNESCO World Heritage Site of Mont Saint Michel or a local park, leave it better than you found it.
French people are typically very environmentally conscious and like to keep their public spaces clean.
Don’t be that tourist who litters and ruins the view for everyone else!
17. Keep your high heels at home
The cobblestone streets of Paris, especially in the Latin Quarter, are not heel-friendly. Opt for comfy shoes instead.
I know you want that aesthetic Instagram photo, but trust me, your feet will thank you in the end.
Plus, it’s a lot easier to explore when you can actually walk around comfortably.
18. Don’t be a Disney snob
Disneyland Paris is a fun, unique experience. Don’t compare it to its American counterpart – embrace the differences!
Disneyland Paris is much smaller than the one in California, but that doesn’t mean it’s not a great time.
You might be surprised by how much there is to do and explore!
19. Don’t be obnoxious on the Paris Metro
It’s not the place for a pre-dinner drink or wine tasting. Nor is it the time to call your bestie back home and spend the entire ride catching up.
Keep your conversations to a minimum and consider standing if there are people looking for a seat.
There are usually plenty of people trying to get where they’re going, so be considerate and leave some room for them too!
20. Don’t expect to find tons of fast food
France is famous for its delicious cuisine, so try the local dishes, like foie gras, instead of searching for a grocery store or American food.
Of course, we do have a few guilty pleasures here in France: Mcdonald’s, Burger King, KFC, and even Chipotle can be found all over the country.
But why limit yourself to fast food? Give the local dishes a chance!
Related read: 12 Local Dishes to Try in the French Riviera
21. Don’t skip the Palace of Versailles
Once home to French kings, it’s more than just a pretty building – it’s a symbol of France’s rich history.
Make some time to explore the palace, take in the stunningly beautiful gardens, and even have lunch at one of the restaurants inside.
If you’re up for it, consider taking a guided tour of the palace to really soak up the experience.
P.S. I’ve written a complete guide on How to Visit the Palace of Versailles on a day trip from Paris – check it out here!
22. Don’t be the annoying tourist
Remember, you’re a guest in this beautiful country. Show respect, avoid being too loud in public areas, and always mind your table manners.
Americans: I love you – heck, I am you – but y’all are loud.
Your (our) normal talking voice can sound like yelling to the locals.
I used to hear this all the time when I first moved here and I never understood what they meant. But after being here for 4 years, I can spot the American tourists from a mile away.
Try to keep it down so you don’t draw too much attention and make life uncomfortable for everyone else.
Not only will it help you blend in like a local, but it will also decrease the likelihood of you becoming a target for theft or scams.
23. Don’t forget your universal travel adapter
France uses a different type of plug than the US and North America, so pack an adapter to keep your gadgets charged and ready to capture your adventures.
If you’re coming from other countries within Europe, you should be good to go – France uses the same type of plug as most other countries in Europe.
24. Don’t limit your visit to the summer months
France is gorgeous year-round, from the snow-capped French Alps in the winter to the colorful fall foliage in rural France.
Don’t think that you have to visit during the summer holidays to get the full experience – there are plenty of attractions that can only be experienced during other times of the year.
Plus, visiting during the off-peak season and winter months means fewer crowds and lower prices.
Related read: Best airlines to fly to Paris (from the US & Europe)
25. Don’t underestimate the power of “Bonjour”
Always greet shopkeepers, waitstaff, and locals with a friendly “Bonjour” before diving into conversation. It’s a sign of politeness and will earn you major brownie points.
And the opposite – not saying “bonjour” – will net you some major side-eye.
It’s the equivalent of walking into a stranger’s house and not saying hello – it’s just rude.
26. Ditch the athleisure
I know…
Your Lululemon leggings are sooooo comfortable, and that GymShark hoodie is your favorite – but save them for the gym.
French people are known for their chic style, so dress up a little when going out to dinner or visiting upscale areas.
No need to go full-on runway, but a little effort goes a long way.
27. Don’t refuse the bread
When dining at a French restaurant, you’ll likely be offered fresh bread.
Embrace the carbs, girl! It’s part of the French dining experience.
The French baguette is a dinnertime staple and a right of passage for any true French experience.
There’s nothing quite like dunking a warm baguette into a steaming bowl of soup! So unless you’re allergic, don’t refuse it.
Plus, it’s free – and who can resist a freebie?
28. Don’t snap photos of strangers without permission
You might find French fashion and street scenes captivating, but always ask for permission before taking someone’s picture. It’s common courtesy.
France is a country that has always appreciated art and culture, so it’s not abnormal to have photographers roaming the streets – but don’t be creepy.
Just because they’re in public doesn’t mean they gave you permission to snap their photo. Make sure you respect the privacy of others when taking photos.
29. Avoid cutting in line
Patience is a virtue, especially when waiting in line for popular attractions like the Louvre Museum or the Eiffel Tower. Cutting in line will get you called a connasse real quick.
Don’t let it come to that, just be patient and wait your turn.
30. Don’t forget to stay safe
France is generally a safe country – but like any other place, there are still some risks involved when traveling.
Always keep an eye on your belongings and never leave them unattended. And don’t forget to research the areas you’re visiting so you can get an understanding of the safety risks and what to avoid.
31. Don’t expect shops to be open 24/7
Many businesses in France close for lunch and have limited hours on Sundays. It’s not uncommon for most restaurants to be closed for 3-4 hours in the middle of the day, so plan your meals accordingly.
Don’t forget to check store hours before you make your way there – or you’ll end up very disappointed.
32. Don’t loudly discuss politics or religion
Keep sensitive topics to a minimum in public spaces.
French people value their privacy, and loud conversations about controversial subjects can be seen as disrespectful.
Save the spicy convos for when you’re back at the hotel.
33. Don’t ask for ketchup with every meal
French cuisine is an art form, and slathering ketchup all over your plate is a faux pas. Try to savor the flavors as they were intended.
Of course, asking for ketchup for your burger and fries is allowed (and encouraged)! Eat your meals the way you like them, just don’t forget to try some traditional local cuisine while in the country.
34. Don’t tip excessively
In France, a service charge is usually included in the bill (“service compris“). While it’s always nice to show appreciation for great service, there’s no need to tip extravagantly.
Some servers may try to convince you that a large tip is necessary, but that’s not the case.
This has happened to me many times in Paris – servers hear me speaking English while out with friends and make it a point to say “This is the price, before tip” when bringing the bill. A small tip (5-10%) is appreciated, but don’t be fooled into tipping more than necessary.
Leave 1 or 2 euros on the table if the service was good and call it a day.
35. Don’t forget to soak in the culture
France is known for its art, history, and architecture. Spend some time exploring museums, go on city tours, or attend a cooking class.
Go on a walking tour, learn about the country’s past, and practice speaking French with locals. Make your time in France memorable by learning the culture, eating traditional dishes, and taking in the sights.
There are so many amazing things to do in France, so make sure to take it all in!
36. Don’t be afraid to ask for help
Lastly, don’t be afraid to ask for help!
France is a country full of hospitality, and the locals are always more than happy to lend a helping hand.
Don’t be afraid to ask them for directions or advice if you need it. Most people are friendly and more than willing to help.
Final thoughts…
So there you have it, my friend – 20 things to avoid while you’re exploring this amazing country!
Remember, it’s all about respecting the French people, their culture, and the beautiful places they call home. With these tips in mind, you’re sure to have a fantastic time and create memories that’ll last a lifetime.
Bon voyage, and don’t forget to send me a postcard!
Hi, I’m Tiana – founder of and author here at Where Tiana Travels. I’m a 20-something with a love for all things travel, photography, and food. I have been living abroad for the past 5 years and solo traveling the globe in my free time. I created this blog to share my travel stories and inspire other women to go out and see the world. Read more about me here!
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